Homeade Kahlua

Round one is on me :)

5 c. sugar
2/3 c. or 10 tbsp. instant coffee
4 tbsp. pure vanilla extract
1 qt. vodka

Mix sugar and coffee together. Add 4 cups boiling water and stir until dissolved. Cool completely while stirring. Add 4 tablespoons pure vanilla and 1 quart cheap vodka, stir well and bottle.

6 extra strength tylenol, 2 aspirins and 2 muscle relaxers later...

I still have a pinched nerve...I woke yesterday in total agony...how do people LIVE like this? my right side was and is sooo sore...must be a pinched nerve from sleeping wrong or something...the day before I had a really stiff neck but now is just agony...but the drugs have helped take the edge off. I can certainly empathise with anyone that lives with cronic back pain...it takes a lot out of you just to move about...you don't realize how much you take those muscles for granted until they are locked up on you and leave you totally incapacitated.

Today is better but it certainly has opened my eyes to appreciate good health more

I'm Feeling a little crabby today...

Cancer - Symbol of The Crab
Cancer is an Water signSymbol: The Crab Planet: The Moon Style: Cardinal Birthstone: Pearl Color: Silver Flower: Larkspur Virtue: Caring Key Characteristic:Emotional and Loving Intuitive and Imaginative Shrewd and Cautious Protective and Sympathetic butChangeable and Moody Overemotional and Touchy Clinging and Unable to let go

The Cancerian character is the least clear-cut of all those associated with the signs of the zodiac. It can range from the timid, dull, shy and withdrawn to the most brilliant, and famous Cancerians are to be found through the whole range of human activity. It is a fundamentally conservative and home-loving nature, appreciating the nest like quality of a secure base to which the male can retire when he needs a respite from the stresses of life, and in which the Cancerian woman can exercise her strong maternal instincts. The latter tends to like and to have a large family. `Nest like' is an appropriate adjective for the Cancerian home, for its inhabitants tend to favor the dark, mysterious but comfortable type of house which has something of the air of a den about it, a place which belongs to the family rather than existing as a showcase to impress visitors.

As the fourth sign of the zodiac, Cancer represents the fourth stage in the evolution of man and his place in the universe. In Cancer the need is not one of individual survival as it was in the first three signs. Here, it is eternal survival through perpetuation of the species. It is the sign of fertility and nurture, and Cancerians have strong identification with these matters in one form or another. It doesn't mean all of them are good cooks or efficient housekeepers, but they all want to feel part of a family. They enjoy feeding others as much as they enjoy feeding themselves. They are also ready to supply emotional nurturing by "mothering" everyone who appears to be in need. When upset, they tend to use food as consolation, which in turn, results in problems with excess weight. As an offshoot of their sense of familial relationships, they often develop an interest in genealogy and history in general. Cancer will find their greatest security within the structure of a family setting due to the maternal side and the need to protect those in his or her charge. There is a homey feel about Cancer that draws the other signs; You have the ability to attune to the moods of others quickly or to change their moods to suit yours; you should not underestimate your effect on people and you should learn to use this ability wisely and not just for personal gain. Cancerians react emotionally to everything they experience in life. That is, before they take physical action, before they sort out the practicality of what they are doing, and before they reason things out intellectually, they must express their feelings. They wear their hearts on their sleeves. Many Cancerians succeed in life because their genuine concern for the welfare of others inspires loyalty as well as cooperation. The Moon, celestial guardian of human emotions, rules Cancer. The biggest struggle for Cancerians is to avoid becoming prisoners of their own emotions. Though they can be outwardly gregarious, they are shy and secretive about their personal matters. However, once they feel comfortable in a situation or relationship, they relax and completely open up even to the point of dominating the situation. Not usually ones to suffer in silence, they have to make an effort not to inflict their moods and endless recitations of their feelings or emotional troubles on others. Once they learn to keep excess emotions in control, their intuition can be remarkably accurate. Their emotional insecurity makes them want to hang on to things. They hate to throw anything away, and many end up avid collectors, conservators, and savers of string. It is equally difficult for them to give up on failed relationships, and still harder for them to learn the difference between caring and possessiveness. When they receive criticism, even constructive criticism, they tend to take it as a personal indictment instead of using it to attain personal growth and maturity. The CANCER lover is extremely romantic and passionate people. They enjoy all the traditional rituals of wooing and winning a sweetheart and usually opt for marriage or a long-term relationship. They make loyal mates and will champion their spouse's career and expect the same in return. These individuals are intensely attuned to the needs and wants of their partner; they are exceptionally sensitive lovers. A CANCERIAN never gets enough love and approval; they always need more. It is very easy to fall in love with this loyal, devoted, affectionate, and protective Moonchild. The CANCER friend with their gentle and caring spirit, CANCERIANS are the ones to whom others turn with problems, worries and life choice concerns. Despite their ability to support and nurture their pals, they do not make friends easily. This may be because they take friendship seriously and don't bother to indulge superficial associations. They are often shy people who wait for friendships to develop instead of actively pursuing them. In general, CANCER likes friends who will support his or her emotional and financial needs when necessary and CANCER will reciprocate. Cancer colors are white, silver, and pale yellow. Vulnerable parts of the body are the breasts and stomach. Stomach aches, food allergies, and hysterics are the usual afflictions of Cancerians. Cancer rules silver, and the ruby as well as the pearl are considered Cancerian birthstones. The surroundings of a beautiful piece of silver are reflected in its shiny polished surface. Similarly, the emotionally sensitive nature of Cancerians tends to reflect the people and circumstances surrounding them. The ruby, a variety of corundum, is one of the hardest minerals known, while the pearl is soft and easily scratched. These gems uniquely illustrate the two contrasting sides of the Cancerian personality; hard and determined as well as soft and vulnerable. Cancerian flowers are the water lily (lotus), iris, poppy (white), carnation (white) and southern magnolia Cancer governs the chest, breasts, elbows, stomach and digestion, womb and female reproductive organs. Cancer, which can affect any part of the body, is sometimes said to have taken its name from this sign, which can therefore afflict its subjects with imperfections anywhere. This is incorrect, however, the derivation of cancer being the Latin cancer meaning gangrene as well as crab. nevertheless, Cancerians are said to be liable to breast cancer and to suffer from pleurisy, dropsy, piles and varicose veins. The excitability mentioned above can lead to weak digestion, gastritis and other stomach ills, and there is a tendency to coughs and weakness of vision.

Come One, Come All

'It's the greatest show on Earth'

Ok, it may not have been the greatest show, there were no elephants or tigers or men being blown out of a cannon...just a three ring circus of dancers, acrobats and magicians that put on a really good show...I don't think part of the show included falling off (the trapezest fell twice) an acrobat on a ball fell from a pretty lofty perch and twisted her ankle but she got right back on with a smile...the show must go on...we were pretty close to the floor so when the lights went down I could make out her sillouette...she was limping off...there was a tiger...just one...and it was in a tiny enclosure that they rolled out for pictures...$10 a picture in which the tiger was mostly hidden...the guy kept waking up the tiger who just looked like he wanted to sleep...she gave me such a forlorn look when they rolled her by...

Ok the kids had a really GREAT time...there was a kid about Jared's age that was the hit of the show...he was an adorable clown...the kiddos got those annoyingly adorable light guns and princess wands to wave throughout the show...by the time we got to our driveway we were hoping the batteries were wound down too...it was after 10 when we got home...the kids crashed right away and the first thing Jaiden said upon waking this morning "I like the CIRCUS!" And that after all is what its all about.

Its still in the 20s and snow is on the ground. When Daddy asked Jaiden if she wanted to go outside she said "NO its too COLD!" Then of course she forgot 5 min later and went to the door asking to go outside...

Good Morning from SNOWY Minnesota

Anyone up for coffee and a chat out on the deck this morning?

It's going to take a truckload of Chocolate to take the edge off this...

Yes, snow in APRIL...it is April isn't it? Not December...February maybe?....am I in a time warp of winter....round and round and round we go...when it ends God only knows

TGIF

Yay! Its Friday!

Another week down....another week closer....to WHAT?...that is the question...I'm not sure the answer to that anymore...hubs and I had the big F discussion last night...the FUTURE...what does our future hold? What are our future plans??? We had hoped that he would be retiring in June of 2009...and getting the heck out of dodge (aka Grand Forks) moving to Dallas (or anyplace that is warm) but the way things are right now there is NO WAY that is going to happen...meaning that if he stays in he will undoubtedly get deployed in the near future...in 22 years he's seen 24/7 pushed to the max...he's done a remote in Korea...and now he may be looking at a deployment too...thats life in the military for ya...we will stay here so Cody has a chance to graduate...in 2010...then what? ....right now its a BIG FAT mystery...and I have never been one for mysteries...I like to plan things out MY WAY of course and have them work out PRECISELY to my measure...that aint a happining here...I have to cool my jets and let GOD take the reins...letgoandlletGodletgoandletGodletgoandletGod....

Happy Friday Everyone! Hope everyone has a great weekend...its supposed to be (and is) very cold, mucky and windy here this weekend. There is a school carnival happening tonight, Jared's first soccer game on Saturday, and THE CIRCUS is in town so we may go check that out too...

Have you read this?

**** (Four out of 5 stars)

I am currently reading "For All Their Lives" by Fern Michaels...I can't seem to stop reading it....I've even read the last few pages (a very BAD habit of mine) and I still can't put it down...I was up late reading last night...only a few more chapters to go...it has many twists and turns so its always like reading a new story...I will do a full review when I finish it but was curious to know if anyone else out there had any thoughts on it....

TWISTED...if I could only give one word to describe this story I would have to say it is twisted...not in a bad way though...more like in a rainbow lollipop kinda way....the many mini stories in this novel twist and turn and then come back together as a whole in the end....I did not like the ending...maybe partially because I'd already read the last chapter...it didn't leave any closure...there should have been some closure there...the last chapter left me wanting more to happen...for true love to prevail...guess thats the romantic in me but that IS why I read fiction...to have a non reality get away

I will post more in the comments section but I do not want to give the story away to anyone that hasn't read it yet and would like to...its one of those stories that is hard to put down